Making sacrifices in terms of time, money, and emotions in order to be in a relationship with your girl Whereas other things are equally complicated and essential, financial sacrifice seems to be the relationship’s lubricant, particularly for male partners.

But communicating to your partner is one cost you can’t avoid, and it’s annoying when the opposite is true.

What do I do if she doesn’t call me? Should I send airtime to my girlfriend? What does my girlfriend do with her airtime? I’m available to respond to that query!

If you are reading this, it is likely that you have reached the point where you are sending a girl airtime. If you can afford it, I have nothing against it.

However, if you feel obligated to buy her a data bundle or recharge her phone constantly, you should exercise caution, especially if she doesn’t call or text you frequently to inquire about how you are doing.

There is a difference between a girl who calls merely to get something from you; she is just pretending to love and care for you because she is your benefactor, and a girl who checks on you out of concern for your well-being.

Do you ever wonder who she calls on her airtime? Or are you so valuable that she won’t waste her airtime calling you?

I can only imagine the pain of sending your girl airtime and having her transfer it to her lover or use it to call her sweetheart.

If you are important to her, she will call you, and if she doesn’t, forget it. Another man has her heart, and you serve as an oil to keep the relationship between them going.

Also read: How to Know if a girl is manipulating you

Reason why you should stop buying airtime for girls?

You should never send girls airtime, especially if she doesn’t call you, for the following reasons.

1. She doesn’t love you?

Love may be a lovely sensation, especially for a guy who thinks he’s found the one and imagines settling down and starting a family only to realize that you’ve been living in your fantasy.

The person you refer to as the chosen one had already made up her mind about another person, and she is only with you for the benefits you provide—you are either her backup plan, the one who pampers her, or the one she needs in her bedroom.

As a result, she doesn’t see the need to get in touch with you—her heart already belongs to another man—and when she does, it’s only for the purpose of getting what you can provide, after which she returns you to your category.

Because women are controlled by their emotions, a woman who truly loves you will call to check on you even if she is seeing other men.

If she doesn’t, and you are recharging her airtime and data, I don’t want to be rude, but that is a complete red flag; a one-sided relationship can never work, and if you force things, you will spend the rest of your life in heartbreak. Better save it.

2. You are not important to her

I just wanted to let you know these things: I have a girlfriend who occasionally calls me at 6 a.m. to ask how my day is going, and when I don’t call or text for a full day, I can be sure to see a ton of Whatsapp messages. She does these things even though I already know she is seeing other men (she doesn’t know that I know actually), so if you are important to her, she will call you frequently. If she doesn’t, what are you to her?

3. She is broke when it’s comes to reaching out to you?

When you asked her why she couldn’t call you directly and she said that she didn’t have enough airtime, you should run as fast as your legs can carry you because you deserve to be happy.

You recharged airtime for her but all you saw was miss call. When you called back, she complained that she didn’t have enough airtime. She complains about being poor so that you will continue to do what she wants you to do for her.

Conclusion

If a girl really loves you, she will find a way to get in touch with you or start a conversation. If she makes no effort at all, you should probably move on with your life because you are just her backup plan. Don’t waste your time, energy, or money on another man’s treasure. Be wise!